U-Haul and Unpack - Friendships, Betrayal, and Healing After Toxic Relationships
U-Haul and Unpack isn’t your average self-help podcast.. It’s raw, bold, and a little messy (just like real life). We’re two married lesbians unpacking the breakups, betrayals, and toxic ties of romantic relationships, friendships, and family (yes, even the one with your mom), that no one wants to talk about, but everyone has lived through.
From fake friends who drain you to long-term relationships that end in heartbreak, we’re calling it out and breaking it down so you can finally stop people-pleasing, spot the red flags, and walk away without looking back.
This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked yourself:
- Why do I keep attracting friends who drain me, gaslight me, or make everything about them?
- Is it loyalty… or am I just clinging to someone who’s already shown me who they are?
- What does healing after betrayal actually look like when your world just cracked in half, beyond the clichés of “self-care”?
It’s like that one deep convo with your best friend, or even that stranger in the bar bathroom, that you didn’t know you needed.
Think of it as a soft place to land, a call-out and a hug, and a bi-weekly reminder that putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s essential.
Expect real stories, unfiltered conversations, and the kind of tough love that leads to your ultimate glow-up. Because loving others is real, but loving yourself is revolutionary.
U-Haul and Unpack - Friendships, Betrayal, and Healing After Toxic Relationships
Episode 2: So… Why the Fck Did You Cheat? - Affair Recovery and Honest Relationship Reflection
A raw look at cheating, betrayal, and uncovering the stories we tell ourselves.
In Episode 2 of U-Haul and Unpack, we put it all on the table. The cracks were there long before the affair, and now it’s time to ask the hard questions: Where were you? What were you thinking? Who were you back then?
This episode is about reflection and growth, not blame. We explore:
💔 Internal stories we tell ourselves in the aftermath of betrayal
🔑 Honest reflection as a tool for understanding and healing
🚩 How sitting in the mess can lead to deeper insight and stronger connections
This isn’t about rehashing pain. It’s about reflecting with the tools we’ve learned, noticing the internal stories we were each telling ourselves, and finally being honest about what was really going on beneath the surface.
If you’ve ever wanted to hear two people navigate the aftermath of an affair with honesty, vulnerability, and tough love, this is the episode for you. Let’s unpack it.
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