U-Haul and Unpack - Friendships, Betrayal, and Healing After Toxic Relationships
U-Haul and Unpack isn’t your average self-help podcast.. It’s raw, bold, and a little messy (just like real life). We’re two married lesbians unpacking the breakups, betrayals, and toxic ties of romantic relationships, friendships, and family (yes, even the one with your mom), that no one wants to talk about, but everyone has lived through.
From fake friends who drain you to long-term relationships that end in heartbreak, we’re calling it out and breaking it down so you can finally stop people-pleasing, spot the red flags, and walk away without looking back.
This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked yourself:
- Why do I keep attracting friends who drain me, gaslight me, or make everything about them?
- Is it loyalty… or am I just clinging to someone who’s already shown me who they are?
- What does healing after betrayal actually look like when your world just cracked in half, beyond the clichés of “self-care”?
It’s like that one deep convo with your best friend, or even that stranger in the bar bathroom, that you didn’t know you needed.
Think of it as a soft place to land, a call-out and a hug, and a bi-weekly reminder that putting yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s essential.
Expect real stories, unfiltered conversations, and the kind of tough love that leads to your ultimate glow-up. Because loving others is real, but loving yourself is revolutionary.
U-Haul and Unpack - Friendships, Betrayal, and Healing After Toxic Relationships
Episode 5: Fck Your Victim Card - You're Self Sabotaging...Start Owning Your Part
How to let go of blame, take accountability, and finally heal from toxic relationships, betrayal, and self-sabotage.
We’ve all been hurt.
We’ve all had someone do us wrong.
But holding onto the victim card doesn’t keep you safe...it just keeps you stuck.
In this episode of U-Haul and Unpack, we’re unpacking what it really means to take accountability for your part in any relationship: romantic, platonic, or family, without dismissing the pain you’ve lived through.
We’re sharing:
🚩 The uncomfortable truth about being both the victim and the contributor
💔 Why staying in victim mode blocks your healing
🔑 How accountability is the only way to break toxic cycles
This conversation is your permission slip to stop replaying what they did and start focusing on what you can change. Whether it’s a breakup, a friendship fallout, or a family wound that won’t close. This episode will help you reclaim your power and start healing forward.
You can be the victim of something and the contributing factor at the same time. That’s where real growth begins. Let’s unpack it.
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